What Data We Collect

We collect only the information needed to run a safe, relationship-focused military dating site. Some data you provide directly; other data is gathered automatically as you use the platform. We never require you to reveal sensitive operational details to create or maintain an account.

Information You Provide

  • Account details: name or nickname, email address, date of birth (for age verification), and a password.
  • Profile content: photos, a short bio, interests, general location (city or region), and relationship goals.
  • Verification data: a selfie or documentation used to confirm identity and, where applicable, military status.
  • Communications: messages you exchange with other members and any correspondence you send to our support team.

Information Collected Automatically

  • Device and browser type, IP address, and approximate location derived from it.
  • Usage data such as pages viewed, features used, and login times.
  • Cookies and similar technologies described in the cookies section below.

How We Use Your Information in Military Online Dating

We use your information to connect you with compatible members, verify identities, and keep the community safe. In short: matching, verification, and safety. We do not sell your personal data, and we limit internal access to authorized staff who need it to operate the service.

Matching and Compatibility

Profile details and preferences power your Match Readiness Score and smart search filters, helping you discover women who genuinely admire military values. Your general location supports local matching without publishing a precise address.

Verification and Fraud Prevention

Verification data helps us confirm that members are real people, screen for romance scammers, and reduce fake profiles - a persistent problem in military online dating. Suspicious activity may be reviewed and reported in line with our safety commitments.

Service Communications

We may email you about matches, security alerts, policy updates, and account activity. You can adjust most notification preferences from your account settings at any time.

OPSEC and Your Privacy on Duty

Operations security (OPSEC) is your responsibility on any dating platform. Because military dating attracts more fraud than other niches, we build verification, scam detection, and a military-focused privacy policy into the service - but the details you choose to share are still within your control.

  • Avoid publishing base names, unit information, or deployment schedules in your profile or early messages.
  • Keep dates of movement, mission details, and clearance-related information off the platform entirely.
  • Use a general city or region rather than a precise home or duty-station address.
  • Be cautious with anyone who pushes for operational details, money, or urgent personal information.

Cookies and Third-Party Services

Cookies are small files stored on your device that help our military dating site function and improve over time. You can control cookies through your browser settings, though disabling some may limit features such as staying logged in. We group cookies into the following categories:

  • Essential: required for login, security, and core platform functions.
  • Preferences: remember settings such as your theme and language choices.
  • Analytics: help us understand aggregate usage to improve matching and safety.

We work with a limited number of trusted third-party providers for hosting, identity verification, fraud screening, and analytics. These providers process data only on our instructions and under confidentiality obligations. For more detail on how we manage tracking technologies, see our safety guidance, and learn more about who we are on our About page.

Your Privacy Rights and Choices

You retain control over your personal information. Depending on your location, you may exercise the following rights by contacting us or using your account settings:

Access and Portability

Request a copy of the personal data we hold about you in a readable format.

Correction

Update or fix inaccurate profile and account information at any time.

Deletion

Request that we delete your account and associated personal data, subject to limited legal or safety-related retention.

Opt-Out and Consent Withdrawal

Adjust notification preferences, opt out of non-essential communications, or withdraw consent for optional processing where it applies.

How We Protect Your Data

We apply layered safeguards to protect your information. These include encryption of data in transit, restricted internal access, identity and photo verification, ongoing fraud screening, and a defined response process for any suspected security incident. If a breach affecting your data occurs, we will notify affected members and relevant authorities as required by law.

Contact Us About Privacy

If you have questions about this privacy policy, want to exercise your privacy rights, or need to report a concern, we are here to help. Reach our team through the details on our contact page, and we will respond as promptly as possible. We may update this policy over time; the effective date above reflects the current version.